Proposing a girl to marry you is the most delicate instance in a man’s life. No matter what you say or how strong you feel about yourself almost all of us would have gone through bouts of nerves before asking the inescapable question. You just can’t miss those moments of anxiety and tension. Can you?
You need to understand your girl very well before you say it all. Many times you have already been with your partner before posing this question. Even then you might sweat if you had planned about the timing of the proposal. Instinctive Unplanned proposal at a
glamorous location is generally the most memorable one.A lot of times guys tend to explain why, how and when before diving into it. Sometimes the explanations are so weird that they don’t make any sense. It’s really not the time to provide answers to expected questions or to justify yourself. You just need to utter those 4 words in a subtle manner. You must have confidence and look into her eyes. Just don’t murmur those words to yourself. Give a hint, create an atmosphere and then plunge in.
One of my friends used to indirectly ask his partner the question multiple times before actually proposing her. He would give reference to a movie or some other friend’s life. He would then ask questions
like ‘What would happen if I said this to you? What would be your reaction? Would it end everything between us?’ Those questions ringed some bells in the mind of the girl. He probably started getting prominence in her thoughts. When he actually proclaimed his love she was expecting it and had herself ready for all that.Many people make a mistake of proposing a girl without really creating a unique place in her heart. The probability of the girl accepting it is 50-50. In most cases it depends on the personality of the girl. Now unless you have unknowingly created a place in her heart your chances are pretty much based on the toss of the coin.The most important thing is that the girl needs to have something for you before you take this step. You need to really decrypt it through her mannerisms, expressions, talks and body language first.
If you propose a girl without actually ruling in her thoughts then you are most likely to hear a ‘No’. So, just don’t propose for the heck of it and face the upset of a ‘No’.